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你了解男人对老婆的嫉妒心吗?
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/ M3 \% J( @+ y% U# f: s: S我26岁,结婚一年了,本人开朗乐观,对人热情,脾气性格很随和。结婚后,出现了一种现象:每次跟老公一同参加聚会,回家之后他必定对我有一番指责。责怪我对人热情,跟别人第一次见面就自来熟。
8 I+ J( K' t" H" l) {* [5 n但是我一直就是这样为人处事的,人缘也很好,并未觉得有不妥之处。可是既然他不喜欢,我就主动把以前男同学的联系方式全删除,完全不联系,与他的朋友们见面也尽量不谈话。自己已经极力克制,甚至把之前为人处事的方式都要颠覆掉、把是非观念都要否定掉了。可就在昨天,跟他同事聚会完毕,回家路上他又指责我跟一男同事自来熟。我很诧异,因为一晚上都只是礼貌性的对话,并没有热络的交流。7 @+ ^  A0 P- j: F
如果说结婚之前不了解我也就算了,问题是,我们是同学,他完全知道我是那种外向活泼的性格。现在我已经无力辩解,也不想辩解,为什么他会把正常的人际交往视为自己不能容忍的事情呢?就那么见不得我跟异性说一句话吗?我认为,对他的朋友同事,我应该做到热情大方的,可是以他的想法,我要矜持不苟言笑,与人保持距离。这两种矛盾的态度该怎么扭转?我到底应该是一个拒人于千里之外的“冰山”、还是一个谈笑风生的主妇?
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, r0 z' g( q" z; b4 u& S你老公的问题总结起来,只有三个字:小心眼。
8 p9 e: J$ {' D. S$ N1 G  B生活中,这样的男人并不少见,总结起来,他们的性格特质一般如下:性格内向,疑心重重,喜欢联想,对人对事常有悲观负面的评价。
# a4 _+ \$ `: V6 y& V5 g而往深层去发掘,其实,小心眼儿的男人,都是自卑心在作祟。他对自己缺乏足够的自信,总是担心自己拥有的一切会随时失去,于是自然的,会随时对人对事充满了警惕,言谈思想难免会显刻薄。
4 e: `9 e, }6 U  `+ G( \+ Y2 Q回到你老公身上来看,他反对你在人前活泼、尤其是在异性面前展示风情,说明他对你是有不安全感的,他不希望其他男人关注到你的美,他希望把你藏起来,让你永远只专属于他一人。内心深处,他是矛盾的,既有自卑的一面,又有大男子主义的一面,不希望你跟异性态度热络,说明他把你当成了专属品,内心深处有着极强的嫉妒情结。
% D  D) V. J4 o. B# k7 Z另外,男人都有这样的心理:总不希望在人前被老婆抢去了风头,他们永远希望女人成为自己聚会时的一个装饰品,可以增添他的魅力,但不要喧宾夺主让他变成配角。5 E& t7 t! }0 {/ S
这类男人在外,既不希望别人贬低自己的老婆(这会让他没面子),更不希望别人赞扬自己的老婆(这也会让他没面子)。只不过,前者会让他觉得老婆太差劲,后者会让他觉得自己太差劲。你老公结婚后开始严令限制你的“社交活动”,可见,也是他周围人对你的夸赞给了他不小的压力。明白了这一点,你该好好想想,自己在人前,是不是过于抢眼了呢?尤其是在他的朋友面前,自己是不是忘了学做一个体贴的配角了呢?! , p2 e( j  e! h# V$ G
跟这样一位有点缺乏自信心的老公一起参与社交活动,作为太太,要懂得夸他,要有意识的帮他发现自己身上的闪光点,逐渐的帮他树立起社交的自尊心。如此,他对你的苛责才能少一些、再少一些。要知道,谈笑风生的主妇,只适合于自信满满的丈夫,若是碰上了一位有点自卑心的男人,还是先表现得冷一些吧,至少,这是平衡他心态的第一步) Q( @9 e  m- E7 ]* H
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    What was I thinking.to my left arm, locked my teeth, held my breath, and wrapped my right arm very lightly around his warm, soft waist.He paused for half a second.Totally unconscious.Move your hands, Jacob.Edwards confidence was reassuring, because it was plain that he wasnt truly worried about his family.ray bans fake!You compare one small tree to the entire forest.Or maybe just me.One moment I stood straight and still as a statue.That's the way you think.Ice shot down my spine.I took my time at the concession counter, watching the clock and debating what percentage of a ninety-minute movie could be spent on romantic exposition.They never have been.It was a careful movement, designed to reassure.I sat down, expecting him to turn toward me.And I would do what.    I looked down, frustrated.I blinked furiously as the drops pelted my face.He really looked like he knew what he was doing.Instead I thought of Rosalie, still figuratively writhing in mortification in the garage, and I grinned to myself.Shed never felt a moments depression, and I wondered why I was different.I'm breaking all the rules now.She didn't say anything,ray ban ClubMaster Sunglasses, and Aro waved off his anxious guard as they moved to block her approach.Please.We didn't talk for a minute.I stopped when I got to Seth, head thrown back, ready to howl again.Years.We'll be out there, watching.The front room, like Billy's house, was mostly kitchen.He hesitated for a minute.Jacob tugged my arm gently, trying to make me sit.I tried to get control of myself, to reason with myself.Whats wrong with you.Yeah, I know.I didn't realize that you were capable of being reasonable.    We can ask that much of our friends.Three steps across the grass, and then eight echoing thuds against the wooden stairs.She'll be in to see you in a minute.Not while the rain made it dim as twilight under the canopy and pattered like footsteps across the matted earthen floor.And then apply it to the card, he finished, holding up the dripping red card for us to see.So.She should have lived back when she could have gotten herself fed to some lions for a good cause.It rang only once.Well, that's everyone, I sighed.I don't know, I whispered.Finally equals.I'll stay out of    Page 136       your way, okay.But you hear her mind just fine.The existence of monsters results in monstrous consequences.We could use a compass and a grid pattern, Jacob said with confident helpfulness.Relax, Bella.The composure he was trying to keep up for Bella was shaky.    I started to complain, but I fell silent when I realized that his whole body was quivering with anger.I was sure we would see them again.We still haven't caught the bloodsucker, remember.What did you do to this.It took Mike a minute to build up his courage, wasting some time on small talk.Youll always be my Bella, youll just be a little more durable.I was shocked to see that he was glowering at Alice,fake Ray Ban Craft, his hands fisted in anger.it would be a good excuse to miss the graduation party.But he got up and moved with unconscious grace to kneel next to the small bedside table.You see,fake oakley sunglasses, Jacob, you might leave her someday.It was Marias idea.Could you stay.And then, what would be the best way to administer___  Rosalie shook her head.It didnt make any difference.His eyes were happy and clear, free for once of the angry bitterness.
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        He opened his eyes in surprise.He took out a legal-sized manila envelope.Thanks, I muttered dryly.All day the tension had made the minutes pass slowly.He stopped at once, and I could see he was wary again.Wait,au oakleys, Edward interjected.Theres not much to arrange, Alice said.I was already aching to see her again.merrell shoes!Maybe she's his cousin.Instead of turning toward the school, she made her way to the rear of her truck, clinging to the side of the truck bed in a droll way, not trusting her footing.And Bella was sticking to the story I'd provided, thus far.And how do you feel about him.Please tell me.I would like to ask one favor, though, if that's not too much, he said.I could feel his cool breath on my neck, feel his nose sliding along my jaw, inhaling.    But now I ignored her just as thoroughly as the others, and he grew complacent.I'm not waiting for anything.Seth, you mind keeping an eye on things for a while.Charlie's eyebrows pulled together.What did she purposefully keep from me.He deliberately worked a thick edge of menace into his tone.You can tell me anything.And then I was on the phone with Billy for a while.Oh, c'mon, I said, an edge of hysteria in my voice.Bella will use up this supply in another day the way her appetite has grown.We'd all dance with you, he promised.Is he okay.She had the opposite reaction.He was used to Edward passing on dinner.I've let this go on much too long, and I'm sorry for that.Jessica had stopped babbling.I let the door fall open.Join or die, is that it.We've all lived that way at times.I hurled myself back down the stairs.    Just promise me one thing.The thicker the red, the more easily we  well, those who exist this way  can feed without attracting notice.Um, where are we going.Ew.Starting now  It's not possible.I have to have details.watching me jump at any loud sound, or my face suddenly go white for no reason that he could see.I stared at her in disbelief,australia oakley sunglasses, my lips automatically curling back from my teeth.Page 56       A shadow crossed his expression.I might as well have my plans in order so that, if I did live past attacking Alec, there would be no hesitation in my strike.We can hear Emmett  hes enjoying himself.Alice lifted the phone on the back of the seat in front of her before we'd stopped climbing,fake ray ban rx sunglasses, turning her back on the stewardess who eyed her with disapproval.His voice was still indignant.She must be ours.    I trailed off, shaking my head in wonder.he asked with an eager smile.When I was in control again, I glowered at her.Almost, but not quite.it was light and superficial, but still nice.I ignored his attempt to sidetrack me.What are we hunting.I was just going to drop a letter for Renee in the mailbox on the way.Let her talk to me, I told him.Seriously, how had I missed this before.but I alsocould not endure to have Renesmee one step closer to our adversaries.My jaw fell open.Oh, be fair, Bella.Yet Carlisle encourages a familiar relationship with this enormous infestation.Dammit, I snarled, and I threw myself through the door.She had a wide face,  mostly cheekbones, with eyes too small to balance them out.We can go to my place so you won't be tempted to be obsessive.I wouldn't.Though I can't figure why he thinks you'd listen to me.% c( m: V4 c' X  f* f
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        We fell silent, and I felt Leah's wince at the word guys.he demanded.He left out the part where I    Page 260       growled at him.As soon as I let myself think of what was coming,imitation oakley, i was all tension.Rosalie breathed out a sigh, loud enough for me to hear.Her eyes were open, her expression so shocked it was almost funny.cheap ray bans!He turned back to me as he pulled into a parking space.What do you want to ask.You're not going to let it go, are you.Maybe I needed to make myself more clear.Smiling wryly to myself, I added Edwards greeting and hit send.Fine, you can come.there was a small pile of white fabric at his feet.Though nothing had changed on the outside, the emptiness screamed from the blank windows.Also, her expression was possibly the funniest thing I'd ever seen.    Maybe he already could.The morning brought with it,ray ban 3016 ClubMaster, if not a brighter outlook, as least a measure of control, some acceptance.it wouldn't be right to bug him with my lesser concerns.Its truly not dangerous at all, I said, pleading again.It was what I wanted, I reminded myself.All at the same time,KNOCK OFF oakley sunglasses, you know.The last two magnets  round black utilitarian pieces that were my favorites because they could hold ten sheets of paper to the fridge without breaking a sweat  did not want to cooperate with my fixation.No, I didn't mean that you would be.When will Carlisle be back.Alice turned her penetrating gaze on him.I was covered in dirt, my hair knotted, my dress bloodstained and hanging in tatters.I always knew that he was where my life was headed.You must exercise control.You shot right up.Are you not allowed to tell me.    I turned to sit up, and this time he let me, releasing his hold around my waist and sliding as far from me as he could in the limited space.Don't take too long, Mrs.He gestured toward the small wooden rectangle behind the store.Hey, uh, Mike, right.he demanded when I ignored him.You were right.They were all the same.Edward asked under his breath, to low for the human woman to hear.I turned slowly to face him.I heard murmurs from the audience that had grown steadily as I practiced.If.Incredible.Dr.Let's hunt, Bella.She sipped at it for a second, and then moaned quietly with her eyes still closed.Utlapa tried to run, but Taha Aki had the strength of the wolf in his new body.living in fear that your daughter would meet a boy she liked, but also having to worry if she didn't.I'm begging, kid.Edward laughed while Rosalie took Renesmee expertly in her arms.    He was angry, naturally, that I was giving up.The newborns will be frantic, and Jasper will be very impressed with your dedication.I'm expecting a Ms.Now, he breathed, and just his smell disturbed my thought processes, what exactly are you worrying about.Jane, dear one, you've returned.embarrassing me when he asked about boys I'd dated.Exhausted, I walked slowly up the Cullens' porch steps in my fancy new secondhand clothes but hesitated when I got to the door.I grimaced.I thought about answering, but I was dazed, and it took a long time to come to the conclusion that I should answer.A perfect fit, he said indifferently.He sighed.faking.I was still imagining pleasant scenarios that consisted of me running away with Edward to various exotic locales.We swam with the porpoises that played in the warm,    Page 59       shallow waters there.; D- |" m5 z2 I( q
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